Patience

"If there's one thing that you can offer to prove how much you love that person you're reserving your heart for, that's patience or willingness to wait, not gifts, flowers or dating, just pure patience, that's all"

picture taken from google

Once my close friend asked me "hindi ka ba nagtataka kung bakit hanggang ngayon wala pa?", I just answered her, "hindi!", why? Because I know that if we are going to rush what is planned and created by god, we will only mess up what is intended to be for us, and we will not have the opportunity to be happy, like what many teenagers are dreaming of, "to live happily ever after"

I don't weary about that things, yes we have to be prepared for that special someone, but always remember that having a lot of relationship before your lifetime partner would be unfair for her, we may lose our physical virginity, but never give to someone even a small space in your heart where love lies eternally, the precious gift of god that is consecrated to be your gift to your partner. and how are we going to be prepared? The answer is, move away from temptations, spare yourself, and you don't have the right to say "I'm ready" for god will give you the sign, a single heartbeat that would explain it all.

I'm sure you are wondering how does waiting serves as preparation for that so called love, because he want's you to accomplish things that must be done first, he want's you to focus on loving yourself, your family, your land and your comrades, and when the time came that you felt the overwhelming love, that's the time that you'll be needing someone to share it with.